Conservative Theology

A Sermonette in Celebration of Marriage


In this day and age, we often forget what marriage is about.  Is it about children?  Sex?  Loneliness?  What?  It is this lack of understanding of marriage that leads to so many problems in the family.  Therefore, when my brother-in-law asked me to give a sermonette in his wedding to introduce the scripture reading (1 Corinthians 13), I decided to celebrate his marriage by reminding them and everyone about just how important marriage is, and what it is for in the first place.  So, here is my sermon.  Feel free to use it for your own weddings if you like it: 

We are here today to celebrate the marriage of Billy and Stasia.  It is worthwhile to take a moment and reflect on this mystical union between man and woman.  Aristotle noted that all civilization starts with the natural attraction between husband and wife, which brings them together to form a family, and from the interactions of families, we get towns and cities.  Thus we see in Billy and Stasia not only the beginning of their lives together, but the very roots of society spreading further.

Not only is marriage the foundation of society, but it is also the foundation of unity in humanity.  The divide between man and woman is the ultimate divide.  Races can be mixed.  Religions can be syncretized.  Cultures can be influenced.  But man and woman have been split from the beginning, more distant than any two tribes or nations, and no amount of breeding can ever remove the boundary.  It is only through marriage that the two parts of humanity are reunited back into one.  And it is marriage as a symbol of unity that gives us all hope for any peace among anyone else.

However, since men and women are so different, sometimes maintaining unity is difficult.  God gives us some help in nature by giving us attractions to each other.  As Garth Brooks said, "Some times we fight just so we can make up"!  While attraction brings us together, it doesn't bond.  For that, we need love.  Some days choosing to love is easy, and other days it is harder.  But we must choose it each and every day, for it is the highest Christian virtue.